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This post was one in a series.  The other parts are available here:   Part IPart IIPart IIIPart IV, and Part VI.

Finally, after the pig had been purchased, transported, brined, had a fire built for it, stuffed, mounted, cooked, nearly ruined, cooked, and removed from the fire.  What next?  Let’s take the meat of the bones.  A lot of the butchering can be done by hand.  First, peel off the thick skin.

The body will look something like this:

Then use a knife with a small blade to cut the meat off of the bones.   I was a little disappointed in the end product.  I expected the meat to be more consistent since the pig was so young and had only drank milk.  Instead the different cuts of meats like the pork belly (often smoked and cured and used as bacon) was different from the pork shoulder, was different from the loin, which was different from the tenderloin, which was different from the ribs, etc.   The rear legs were also different from the rest of the pig.  In part because they did not spend as much time on the spit, but I think that a good part of the diffence was due to the different cuts of meat.

Next time I think I will cook the pig longer, letting it get to around 200 degrees instead of just 175.  That will get all the meat consistent, and fall-off-the-bone tender.  The risk will be that it will literally fall of the bone and into the fire.  Maybe we’ll get it to 175 over the spit, and finish it in the oven.  We’ll see.

Also, a good strategy for the vulchers who will inevitably swarm your pig carcass while your butchering it:  give them some of the bones you’ve already taken the meat off of, and let them pick off of that.  It works for dogs, and it works for grabby hungry people.

Ultimately the pile o’ meat looked like this:

The full dinner, with some roasted vegetables:

I also made a sauce to go with the pork.  Ingredients for serving probably 20 (i.e. 8 more people than we had) include:

  • 1 stick of butter (1/2 cup) — or substitute 1/2 cup of oil (preferably Extra Virgin Olive Oil, if it’s on hand)
  • 1/2 cup of flour
  • 1 cup of milk
  • 1 cup of white wine
  • Several sprigs of thyme
  • 1/4 cup of dijon mustard
  • Salt and pepper to taste

I started with a bechamel, which is a combination of a rue and milk.  Take a half cup of butter (1 stick) and a half a cup of flour, and stir them together with a wire wisk over medium low heat.  You can substitute oil if you don’t have butter (which is what we had to do for our sauce).  When the flour’s rawness is cooked out, and the rue starts to get a little color (after 3-5 minutes) slowly add a cup of milk in a thin stream, allowing the sauce to become a thick white mixture, with the consistency of frosting.  Add salt and pepper to taste.  I added a 1/4 cup of dijon mustard,  a cup of white wine, and the leftover juice from the lemons that were in the cavity of the pig.  A few sprigs of thyme went in as well.  I let that cook together on medium for 10-15 minutes, to let the flavors marry, stirring consistently.  Add some more salt and pepper to taste.  It looked like this while it was cooking:

You can see the thyme in there.  I removed it before serving, and also tested to see that the salt and pepper were good.  There was way too much for the 12 people we were serving, but I thought better to have too much than too little.

The pig was a hit, but there was plenty of room for improvement.  Post VI will be a post-mortem debriefing, as well as a consolidated explanation on how to roast a suckling pig and succeed brilliantly.

Next time…

I’l let you in on a little secret: I love weekday entertaining. It’s more relaxed and gives you a nice taste of social interaction without being an entire Friday or Saturday drinking/eating/carousing bout. It appeals to my introverted nature that I can have a quiet dinner with friends and be in bed by 10pm.

Last week we had some neighbors over for a simple – but quite tasty – vegetarian meal. Our neighbor was vegetarian, because normally I would never entertain without meal. When Hub first told me about the vegetarian challenge, I thought “Oh, I’ll make stir fry!” Quick, easy, and made with tofu. However, I decided against it because my stir-frys have an uneven quality. As Hub puts it, “Sometimes they are great, and sometimes they are perfectly adequate.” I didn’t want to risk serving perfectly adequate to guests. Hub told me our guests were fine with eggs and dairy, so I decided instead on a three-course menu.

First Course: Whole-Wheat Pasta with Dandelion Greens and Garlic

Second Course: Green Onion and Goat Cheese Quiche with Radicchio (Heaven)

Third Course: Orange Cinnamon Rolls and Fruit Salad

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As any great hostess knows, the essential piece of entertaining is getting the timing right. So rather than focus on the recipes, which in and of themselves are quite simple, I’m giving you a run-down of my timing for this evening.

1. Clean house on Monday night, and run errands (including the grocery) on Tuesday night. These are my typical days for these tasks anyway. Get distressed by the grocery store not having broccoli rabe or leeks, which were your original vegetables of choice for this meal.  Substitute dandelion greens and green onions. Forget to buy a pre-made pie crust for quiche and figure, “oh, I’ll just make it – there will be plenty of time!”

2. Wednesday at 4pm, realize there is no way you are going to finish a report you’re working on by 4:15 to leave home and make a pie crust. Call Hub and tell him to make the pie crust, and while he’s at it, wash the dandelion greens and slice the radicchio. (Pie dough does best when you let it sit for 30-45 minutes in the fridge before rolling it out for use – something about glutens developing and resting and starchiness. I don’t know, I’m not a baker.)

N.B. You can find a simple quiche pie crust recipe here.

3. Come home. Roll out pie crust and pre-bake in 375 degree oven. Halve the oranges, section them, and remove all pulp to create “cups” for the cinnamon rolls and a fruit salad for dessert. Marinate the radicchio. Saute the green onions to put in the quiche. Mix together the quiche ingredients – 3 eggs, 3/4 cup whole milk and 3/4 cup heavy cream, salt, pepper. Set aside. Put pasta water on to boil. Chop up dandelion and 3-4 cloves of garlic. Realize you’re now suppose to be at neighbor’s house for a pre-dinner drink, take out the quiche “browning” in the oven, and decide it is brown enough (it is not, but whatever). Leave oven on at 375… it’ll be OK, right?

4. Have drink at neighbors.

5. Come home, be relieved house has not burned down. Put goat cheese and green onions in pie crust, top with egg/milk mixture and put in over. Bring pasta water back up to boil, start to brown garlic in large pan, start to over-brown it, then throw in dandelion. Toss in some vegetable stock as well. Once pasta is cooked, toss in pan with dandelion and garlic. Serve in large bowl with Parmesan. Serve first course.

6. Timer goes off (after 35 minutes) and quiche is ready. Quickly cook radicchio in grill pan, plate, and top with Parmesan shavings and balsalmic drizzle. Unpop the can of cinnamon rolls, do not feel guilty you did not make these from scratch, and place a cinnamon roll in each orange cup. Turn the oven up to 400 degrees and pop rolls in for 15 minutes. Serve second course.

7. Timer goes off for rolls - everyone is still enjoying their meal – so wait to serve rolls until everyone is ready. Dash a bit of cinnamon on the fruit salad, and voila – serve the third course. Forget to put icing on cinnamon rolls, but they are still good.

Seven steps to a (relatively) stress-free weeknight entertaining menu – and one for which I prepared nothing in advance. Several steps could have been done in advance (prepping the oranges, making the pie dough, chopping up veggies) but nothing was so arduous that it had to be done in advance.

Have you entertained on a weeknight? How did it go?

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This weekend we threw a holiday party for about 70 guests. It was a great group – neighborhood friends, law school friends, work friends, and well, just friends. After a big party it’s always a great idea to do your own post-mortem to figure out what worked and what didn’t. Everyone tells us there’s no way we’ll throw this party next year after the baby comes, which just makes Hub and I more determined to try.

Invites

I ordered invites from Tiny Prints, and although it’s an extra expense, I love mailed invites. It does become complicated, though, and inevitably a week or two before the party I’m emailing additional folks to say “Come to the party!” Tiny Prints does a service where people can RSVP to a website, which is great, except that usually you need to send an email reminder with the link. All in all I will probably do the paper invites again.

Decor

Much as he might not like me sharing this, Hub did most of the decor. We had a lot of silver ornaments, and so our colors were sort of subdued silver and white lights. Of course we have a few “personal” ornaments on our tree, but I like the simple look he picked out. We also had a large glass vase from my sister-in-law’s wedding and filled it with silver balls. I bought a poinsetta, and then Lujo brought a lovely flower arrangement! I don’t think she brought it from Mexico City though…

Menu

Our old standbys made another appearance: beefsteak filets dipped in butter “sauce” on top of baguette and shrimp cocktail. We had a cheese platter, crudites, olives, spiced nuts, and bruschetta, thanks in most part to Costco. Friends brought an assortment of sweets which was lovely. We overbought, as usual, but the shrimp and steak was a good amount (4 lbs of shrimp, I think and 2 large beefsteaks). I bought two crudite trays, which was silly and now I have a ton of vegetables leftover. Everything else was probably a good amount. We could have done without the bruschetta, although one of our friends called the next day and raved about it, wanting to know how we made it. Um, I doctored up some store-bought with a fresh tomato, sherry vinegar, and salt, mostly because I didn’t want to chop up a dozen tomatoes. But it was really tasty.

We had favors provides by Whipped Bakery DC as well, which people didn’t realize were there at first until I started forcing them on people. They were excellent little cookies, and you can order your own cookie platter from Rebekah as well!

Drinks

We had champagne “punch” – which is really just champagne cocktail in a punch bowl, egg nog (alcoholic and kid nog), wine, beer, and a cranberry sparkling bunch for the preggos. And drivers. I could have stood to make an initial round of champagne punch with 4 bottles of champagne instead of doing two at a time, which meant I was mixing together the simple syrup, bitters and champagne every half hour. We did go through about a case of champagne and a case of wine. The four cases of beer was too much, although I would be hesitant to buy fewer than three because you never know what people will feel like on any given night.

What I’d do differently

Not much, in all honesty. I wanted to have some coffee and hot apple cider but never got around to borrowing some hot carafes. I’d also like to do some notecards for what all the different items are, especially the drinks since I think people avoided the non-alcoholic cranberry punch not knowing what it was. Last year I did some sort of peppermint cocktail that was really fun, but not sure if it was necessary.

We’ll have photos soon to share. It was a lot of fun, and I’m glad we did it again despite my back aching from all the standing (this baby is getting heavy!). Next year we think that setting up a kids’ party in the basement with some sitters might be the way to go, both for us and so our friends can come and enjoy. And so the kiddos can enjoy! Nothing like a Christmas move and some coloring books, right? And the inevitable crayon on our walls. Oh well. It’s Christmas, dammit.

I love this shot, mostly because I love this coffee table. Craigslist, $150, and real marble. The “artistry” of the shot does conceal the great munchies, which are thinly sliced potatoes baked into chips and topped with parsley and salt, marinated olives, and thinly shaved Romano cheese. Hey, it’s what you have around that makes the best snacks! Accompaniments on the side are pumpkin seeds and pecans.

Night shot from a Nantucket wedding. Lovely with lanterns, candles, and small mint julep cups with varying types of deep pink flowers. Also, plenty of wine!

A simple brunch setting, with my favorite Alhambra dishes and simple green napkins and white tablecloth. And, as always, decorate with food!

From our cousin’s wedding earlier this summer. Flowers were blue hydrangeas and pale yellow roses, same as my June wedding flowers, so I approve. I also loved here theme, “Meant to Bee!” with little bees and honeypot favors.

From my brother and sister -in-law’s wedding. Flowers actually grown local to the venue, in the North Fork of Long Island: sunflowers, zinnias, and others. She used “science bottles,” homage to her career as a science teacher, and mercury glass for the decor.

From a baby shower for The New Diplomat’s Wife. Flowers by Lujo!

Clafouti sort of sounds like an STD. But it’s not! It’s a lovely French dessert. I made one last night, and it was super simple. The key is having ripe pears, which you can’t really just go out and buy. I got pears from my CSA, and a week and half later, they were the perfect ripeness for making a clafouti. The ripeness is important, because a clafouti is really all about texture. You butter a dish, sprinkle in some sugar, lay down the pears, then pour on top a custardy/pancakey type mixture. When it bakes, the pears and the custard have a similar, velvety texture that is divine.

Pear Clafouti

Ingredients:

Pears (I used about 5-6 here; sort of depends on the size of your baking dish)

Butter (about a tablespoon)

3/4 cup flour

3/4 cup sugar

3/4 cup plain yogurt (I never like fat free, but up to you)

3/4 cup milk (I actually used skim and it turned out fine)

3 eggs

1-2 teaspoons vanilla

Powered sugar or other garnish (crystallized ginger, cinnamon, etc)

1) Butter the dish, then sprinkle sugar around to coat.

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2) Place peeled and cored pears, cut in half, in the dish, cut side down.

3) Beat the eggs until foamy and thick, then add the rest of the ingredients.

4) Pour mixture into dish and bake at 375 for about 30 minutes, until the top is golden brown and begins to pull away from the sizes. Sprinkle with powdered sugar or other garnish.

When I was peeling the pears, which were ripe almost to the point of mush, the Hub told me that Mario Battalli said that’s how you make the best gelato – wait until the fruit is ripe, then wait two more days, and make gelato. That reminded me of the idea to make pear-ginger sorbet, which would be a wonderful complement to this dish. You could also bake the ginger right in, replacing a couple tablespoons grated fresh ginger for the vanilla.

The dish because of it’s neutral, sort of blah color, doesn’t necessarily make a really nice showpiece, so you might have to do something fancy to make it look nicer. I’ve seen clafoutis where the pears are sliced and laid gently on top of the custard, kind of like a tarte tatin without the pie crust. I made it in a rectangular dish, but maybe next time a pie dish might work better.

Oh, and this makes a great breakfast, too.

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